Hey guys what’s up, Today’s post I wanted to talk to you guys about how to find a good guy now that is a really big statement and something that I don’t really know how to fully answer but I think I came up with a couple of things that will be able to help you guys out so that’s why I wanted to create the article obviously, these are just all my opinions so if you don’t agree with it then you don’t and if you do then you do. But I just thought that it would be interesting to talk about because there are a lot of people out there that think they’re going out with a good person and then all of a sudden that person turns around and just totally destroys everything that they had together and you didn’t even see it coming.
How to find a Good guy
The first thing
The first thing I came up with I know first of all let me just tell you guys that this one doesn’t go for everybody but I think it is a really big sign when you are trying to figure out if somebody is like genuinely a good person but I think that a lot comes down to a maturity level when you trying to like get to know somebody if they’re just always immature they’re always doing stupid things and trying to cover them up. I think that just a really immature person is somebody that’s gonna down the road do something really stupid and think that it’s okay and try to cover it up or try to explain themselves. When really like if they were just mature in the first place and they looked at the situation and we’re able to tell that that wasn’t the right thing to do. I think that maturity is just one of those things that will be able to help you out if you look at that first so if you do like somebody and you’re trying to figure out like if you should go with them or not look at their maturity figure out if they’re actually gonna treat you the way that you want to be treated just by the way that they act.
The second thing
Next thing I came up with something really important to look at something that I think really shows off what type of person that person is the type of people that he surrounds himself with his friends if he surrounds himself with those people. I know with work like sometimes you can’t get away from those people but I think I ignore his friends if he’s always hanging out with people that area bad influence people that you don’t really see as being a good value to that another person like somebody who’s not really caring about their growth or motivating them to be a good person. They’re always hanging out with really dumb people that are doing stupid things most likely this person is gonna be doing the same thing. So, guys, I think that’s really an important look at their friends and I do this to myself too like I tried to make sure that I hang out with people that I know are gonna be a good influence and I think it’s really important to do that so look at their friends make sure they’re good to make sure that you agree with what they’re doing and I think it will really help you.
The third thing
The next thing that I came up with I think that it’s really valuable you might not do this every time or think about this every time you’re talking to somebody but I think that sometimes when you’re trying to find out if somebody would be like compatible with you if you look at where they’re at in lifelike if you’re ready to move out get into an apartment start working and doing a job and this current person that you are liking is still like living at home not doing anything with their life playing video games. All day eating junk food all the time and just like not really caring I think that just looking at where somebody is and where they’re wanting to go and like knowing their goals and that kind of stuff will really be able to help you out because when it comes down to it if you guys aren’t moving in the same direction you’re most likely just gonna move away from each other and it’s not gonna work out.
The Fourth thing
That’s another thing something that I think is kind of like you might not always look at, so let’s switch it up a bit and let’s talk about more of you already know this person and you’re wondering like if it would be a good idea to go with them or be in a relationship with them just by cuz you already know them as friends I think sometimes it can be hard here are some things that I think we’ll be able to tell you if this person is down the road gonna be a good boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever else you want to call it. This one is important because I think you always want to have somebody who’s like on your team they’re on your side they’re always making you feel good if this person makes you feel good about yourself all the time no matter what you look like you’ve been wearing the same sweatpants for four days in a row. I think it just comes down to like loving you for who you are if they are able to do that and they’re able to compliment you even on your worst days and give you criticism when you need it that’s really important and something that I think a really good person has inside of them.
The Fifth thing
The next thing I came up with I think is super important something that a good person is gonna have inside of them and that is they’re able to admit when they’re wrong. I think that a lot of people try to cover things up they try to like manoeuvre the situation they’re just not admitting to they did wrong if they’re able to just admit to something that they know is not right that shows that like they’re an honest person they’re being true to themselves that’s a huge one I think being able to admit like if you can find somebody that’s just like you know they’re truthful you know they’re being genuine with you. You know that they’re being honest and they want to see you succeed and all that kind of stuff like that’s all stuff that everybody wants in a relationship and if you can find that that’s when you know that that person actually really cares about you and is there for you I think that’s just another thing is try to find some of that admits to being wrong.
The sixth thing
The last thing that I came up with that really shows if somebody cares about you and something that I think a good person will have within them because they know that it’s the right thing to do even if that other person isn’t interested in the same things as you like maybe you do something that he’s just totally not into or if he’s there supporting you and like being there to watch whatever you’re doing and he wants to see you happy that’s something that you’re gonna find in a really good person is somebody that’s just gonna support you that’s something that I think everybody should look for and something that isn’t a good person.